owl
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8/29/09
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Re: My Post Are Not Showing Up
Posted:
Sep 13, 2009 10:18 AM
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The posts on enabling list 15, but there are only 8 or so.... Mine completely disappeared. I don't think anything was offensive. I actually was really enjoying the dialogue. I think the enabling issue is one of the most common and frustrating side effects of this disease that we all share. Questioning where the boundaries are, love vs. codependence, etc. I once had a therapist who said tough love was a negative for both parties because you would both end up having the same feelings and behaviors and you would both get hurt. It is a fine line.
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