ginamac
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Registered:
6/28/09
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Had enough, I finally moved out and left my son
Posted:
Jul 5, 2010 1:44 PM
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Sounds strange "leaving my son" I know but he wouldn't leave and I finally had the opportunity to move into a beautiful rental home with my boyfriend and make a fresh start so I did it! The previous condo I was renting is paid up through 7/31 and I've told my 19 yr old son he has until then to get out. He uses heroin now, almost died on his birthday a few months ago, I walked in on him the other day again with a lighter, spoon and a syringe and I just about lost it I was so mad, I am done. I believed him when he said after that all he was doing was smoking occasionally. Liar, again. He hasn't had a job for longer than a week, and has nowhere to move to but not my problem. The sad part is he says he wants to get help but then when his P.O. says "jail or rehab" he doesn't make the phone call. Every day I wonder if this is the day I will find him dead. I had to move out and move on with my life. My ex is still "missing" in California, drinking and calls occasionally to say he's on his last day and is dying (from alcohol). He's homeless, jobless, on the streets. My son says "I'm going to California" but he can't legally go since he's on probation in another state. I know I'm rambling, just wanted to vent I guess, I'm so happy now with my new life I can't believe its only been one year (tomorrow) since the ex walked out on us.
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